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November 15, 2008

Breaking - Up: Damn the DISTRUST!

Filed under: A Little Something, Love/Heart Talks - kAreN maE @ 5:49 pm

Do thoughts of your ex fill your mind every second of everyday? Does the mere mention of your ex’s name tie your stomach into a huge, painful knot? Do you get that sinking, elevator feeling in your heart every time you think about him? Do you think you’ll never feel better again? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then good! At least I know that I am not alone…heheh..emoticon

I had a break – up experience with a certain boy who was once my boyfriend (obvious bah?). for any other reason as well, we broke up maybe because were not really for each other or should I say misunderstanding! . I said, I don’t like to think of it as misunderstanding or whaterver! I like to think of it as Investigative Cleaning!..nyahahah..emoticon

I’m willing to bet that most of the readers have experienced a breakup at least once in their lives…right? In a breakup, stages that a person can feel – anger, sadness, resentment, hatred, insecurity, just to name a few, hmmm… or whatever feeling I may have during the breakup. I’ve come to the conclusion that the absolute worst part of going through a breakup is that one of the common reactions is insane distrust—distrust of yourself, the person you were with, and of the relationship’s meaning. This is something I’ve been struggling with throughout my breakup from my bf, which has officially gone on for one week exactly. Unfortunately, I may be aware that I’m filled with doubt, but I haven’t quite figured out how to stop doing it.

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  1. anger, sadness, resentment, hatred, insecurity,.....btw….ukie ra na …nanu naay mn jud brek up???...

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    Comment by michael — November 18, 2008 @ 5:43 am

  2. 1. “I need space…”

    2. “Tama na. Ayoko na. ”

    3. “Pagod na ko….”

    4. “You deserve someone better. That’s not me.”

    5. “Wala lang…basta…ayoko na…”

    6. “We are too different from each other.”

    7. “I’m in love with my friend/best friend..”

    8. “Magfocus ako sa studies/review ko…..”

    9. “I really think that we should break up..why? because I don’t know if I still love you.”

    10. “It’s not you, it’s me…”

    11. “Talagang kapatid/kaibigan lang ang turing ko sa’yo, e. Let’s keep it that way.”

    12. “We are not growing anymore.”

    13. “I don’t have feelings for you anymore.”

    14. “I just realized, I don’t want to be attached.”

    15. “Mahal kita…pero, pagod na ‘ko..”

    16. “I realize lately, mahal ko pa pala EX ko”

    17. “Hindi na kita mahal, pwede wag mo na kasi ako mahalin?”

    18. “You’re too **** good for me…”

    19. “Kung wala kang pambigay ng load..kalimutan na din tayo!..hehe”

    20. “Maybe this is not the right time for us.”

    asa ka dri ????...:-)

    Comment by michael — November 18, 2008 @ 5:47 am

  3. I don’t know if it’s worth calling an art, but letting go entails special skills sparkle with a considerable skills and time. .....can u remember this line????..art dw na xa…hehehe…

    Comment by michael — November 18, 2008 @ 5:52 am

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