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July 7, 2009

Steve Jobs - Commencement Address at Stanford University (2005)

Filed under: A Little Something - kAreN maE @ 12:24 pm

"You’ve got to find what you love," Jobs says

This is the text of the Commencement address by Steve Jobs, CEO of Apple Computer and of Pixar Animation Studios, delivered on June 12, 2005.

I am honored to be with you today at your commencement from one of the finest universities in the world. I never graduated from college. Truth be told, this is the closest I’ve ever gotten to a college graduation. Today I want to tell you three stories from my life. That’s it. No big deal. Just three stories.

The first story is about connecting the dots.

I dropped out of Reed College after the first 6 months, but then stayed around as a drop-in for another 18 months or so before I really quit. So why did I drop out?

It started before I was born. My biological mother was a young, unwed college graduate student, and she decided to put me up for adoption. She felt very strongly that I should be adopted by college graduates, so everything was all set for me to be adopted at birth by a lawyer and his wife. Except that when I popped out they decided at the last minute that they really wanted a girl. So my parents, who were on a waiting list, got a call in the middle of the night asking: "We have an unexpected baby boy; do you want him?" They said: "Of course." My biological mother later found out that my mother had never graduated from college and that my father had never graduated from high school. She refused to sign the final adoption papers. She only relented a few months later when my parents promised that I would someday go to college.

And 17 years later I did go to college. But I naively chose a college that was almost as expensive as Stanford, and all of my working-class parents’ savings were being spent on my college tuition. After six months, I couldn’t see the value in it. I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life and no idea how college was going to help me figure it out. And here I was spending all of the money my parents had saved their entire life. So I decided to drop out and trust that it would all work out OK. It was pretty scary at the time, but looking back it was one of the best decisions I ever made. The minute I dropped out I could stop taking the required classes that didn’t interest me, and begin dropping in on the ones that looked interesting.

It wasn’t all romantic. I didn’t have a dorm room, so I slept on the floor in friends’ rooms, I returned coke bottles for the 5¢ deposits to buy food with, and I would walk the 7 miles across town every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the Hare Krishna temple. I loved it. And much of what I stumbled into by following my curiosity and intuition turned out to be priceless later on. Let me give you one example:

Reed College at that time offered perhaps the best calligraphy instruction in the country. Throughout the campus every poster, every label on every drawer, was beautifully hand calligraphed. Because I had dropped out and didn’t have to take the normal classes, I decided to take a calligraphy class to learn how to do this. I learned about serif and san serif typefaces, about varying the amount of space between different letter combinations, about what makes great typography great. It was beautiful, historical, artistically subtle in a way that science can’t capture, and I found it fascinating.

None of this had even a hope of any practical application in my life. But ten years later, when we were designing the first Macintosh computer, it all came back to me. And we designed it all into the Mac. It was the first computer with beautiful typography. If I had never dropped in on that single course in college, the Mac would have never had multiple typefaces or proportionally spaced fonts. And since Windows just copied the Mac, its likely that no personal computer would have them. If I had never dropped out, I would have never dropped in on this calligraphy class, and personal computers might not have the wonderful typography that they do. Of course it was impossible to connect the dots looking forward when I was in college. But it was very, very clear looking backwards ten years later.

Again, you can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.

My second story is about love and loss.

I was lucky — I found what I loved to do early in life. Woz and I started Apple in my parents garage when I was 20. We worked hard, and in 10 years Apple had grown from just the two of us in a garage into a $2 billion company with over 4000 employees. We had just released our finest creation — the Macintosh — a year earlier, and I had just turned 30. And then I got fired. How can you get fired from a company you started? Well, as Apple grew we hired someone who I thought was very talented to run the company with me, and for the first year or so things went well. But then our visions of the future began to diverge and eventually we had a falling out. When we did, our Board of Directors sided with him. So at 30 I was out. And very publicly out. What had been the focus of my entire adult life was gone, and it was devastating.

I really didn’t know what to do for a few months. I felt that I had let the previous generation of entrepreneurs down – that I had dropped the baton as it was being passed to me. I met with David Packard and Bob Noyce and tried to apologize for screwing up so badly. I was a very public failure, and I even thought about running away from the valley. But something slowly began to dawn on me — I still loved what I did. The turn of events at Apple had not changed that one bit. I had been rejected, but I was still in love. And so I decided to start over.

I didn’t see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life.

During the next five years, I started a company named NeXT, another company named Pixar, and fell in love with an amazing woman who would become my wife. Pixar went on to create the worlds first computer animated feature film, Toy Story, and is now the most successful animation studio in the world. In a remarkable turn of events, Apple bought NeXT, I returned to Apple, and the technology we developed at NeXT is at the heart of Apple’s current renaissance. And Laurene and I have a wonderful family together.

I’m pretty sure none of this would have happened if I hadn’t been fired from Apple. It was awful tasting medicine, but I guess the patient needed it. Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don’t lose faith. I’m convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did. You’ve got to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don’t settle.

My third story is about death.

When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: "If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you’ll most certainly be right." It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: "If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?" And whenever the answer has been "No" for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.

Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure – these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.

About a year ago I was diagnosed with cancer. I had a scan at 7:30 in the morning, and it clearly showed a tumor on my pancreas. I didn’t even know what a pancreas was. The doctors told me this was almost certainly a type of cancer that is incurable, and that I should expect to live no longer than three to six months. My doctor advised me to go home and get my affairs in order, which is doctor’s code for prepare to die. It means to try to tell your kids everything you thought you’d have the next 10 years to tell them in just a few months. It means to make sure everything is buttoned up so that it will be as easy as possible for your family. It means to say your goodbyes.

I lived with that diagnosis all day. Later that evening I had a biopsy, where they stuck an endoscope down my throat, through my stomach and into my intestines, put a needle into my pancreas and got a few cells from the tumor. I was sedated, but my wife, who was there, told me that when they viewed the cells under a microscope the doctors started crying because it turned out to be a very rare form of pancreatic cancer that is curable with surgery. I had the surgery and I’m fine now.

This was the closest I’ve been to facing death, and I hope its the closest I get for a few more decades. Having lived through it, I can now say this to you with a bit more certainty than when death was a useful but purely intellectual concept:

No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don’t want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life’s change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.

Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.

When I was young, there was an amazing publication called The Whole Earth Catalog, which was one of the bibles of my generation. It was created by a fellow named Stewart Brand not far from here in Menlo Park, and he brought it to life with his poetic touch. This was in the late 1960’s, before personal computers and desktop publishing, so it was all made with typewriters, scissors, and polaroid cameras. It was sort of like Google in paperback form, 35 years before Google came along: it was idealistic, and overflowing with neat tools and great notions.

Stewart and his team put out several issues of The Whole Earth Catalog, and then when it had run its course, they put out a final issue. It was the mid-1970s, and I was your age. On the back cover of their final issue was a photograph of an early morning country road, the kind you might find yourself hitchhiking on if you were so adventurous. Beneath it were the words: "Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish." It was their farewell message as they signed off. Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish. And I have always wished that for myself. And now, as you graduate to begin anew, I wish that for you.

Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.

Thank you all very much.

 

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May 15, 2009

April 2009 Licensure Examination for Teachers (LET) Passers

Filed under: A Little Something - kAreN maE @ 1:26 pm

If you are looking for the results of the L.E.T. held last April 2009 just go to the link below:

February 26, 2009

Intindihan at Antayan

Filed under: A Little Something, Life, Love/Heart Talks, My Personal Life - kAreN maE @ 11:29 am

Parang naiintindihan ko na.

O ito lang ang gusto kong isipin.

Ayaw mo kong masaktan. Ayaw mong makita akong malungkot. Pero ayaw mo rin sa ‘kin. O sige, correction… hindi mo kayang maging kung anong gusto kong maging ka sa buhay ko. Quote na lang kaya kita? Sorry.. *****, hindi ko kayang maging ganoon sa’ yo.

Ikaw naman kasi. Bakit mo pa ba kailangang sabihing gusto mong isauli ‘yung sulat na binigay ko sa ‘yo noong umamin ako? Bakit mo pa sinabing nalulungkot ka tuwing babasahin mo yon? Bakit mo pa sinabing naaawa ka sa ‘kin?

Ako naman kasi. Bakit ko pa kailangang i-prove kung bakit ka naaawa sa kin? Bakit ba pa kita binigyan ng sulat na magpapalungkot sa ‘yo eh ayaw ko din namang nakikitang malungkot ka. Bakit ko ba ‘to ginawa sa friendship natin? Bat ba kasi ang hirap-hirap na hindi umasa?

Ikaw kasi ulit eh. Nung sinabi ko sa ‘yo na nagkakaganito na ‘ko, na may symptoms na ko kaya lumayo ka na, ayaw mo namang lumayo. ‘Yan tuloy, yung ideya na kahit na alam mo na, nakikipag-close ka pa din sa ‘kin, led me on. Masama nga raw mag-expect pero ang hirap hindi eh. Paano ba gawin yung wag isiping baka may nararamdaman din sa ‘yo ang isang taong lapit pa rin nang lapit kahit alam na niya kung anong nangyayari sa ‘yo tuwing andyan siya?

O sige. Ako kasi ulit. Hindi pa ‘ko nasanay. Ilang beses ko ba kailangang dumaan sa ganito? I mean, alam mo yung mga nakaraan ko. Kaya nga ang sagot mo kung bakit ka naaawa sa ‘kin eh dahil pagkatapos nung mga yon, hindi mo inisip na ‘yun din pala magagawa mo. Na paiyakin ako. Pero hindi mo gusto. Alam ko yon. Alam ko mahal mo ‘ko. Hindi nga lang sa paraang gusto ko.

Natatandaan mo pa ba nung iniyakan mo pa yung kaibigan ko? Sabi ko sa ‘yo, you don’t always get what you want but you’ll definitely get what you deserve. Nakakainis, ipapayo ko yun sa sarili ko. For the nth time. Pero di ba sasaya din ako? Hindi pala. Sasaya din ako! Hindi nga lang siguro sa iyo, pero I’ll get what I deserve. Hindi naman ako masamang tao kaya siguro may magandang naghihintay para sa akin. Sana sigurado. At yun na lang ang iisipin ko ‘no?

Tama. Ayaw mo kong masaktan. Ayaw mo kong malungkot. Pero hindi mo kayang maging kung anong gusto kong maging ka sa buhay ko. Alam mong nasasaktan ako ngayon pero alam mong mas mabuti ‘to kesa sumulong tayo sa lebel na hindi para sa ‘tin kung saan baka mas lalo pa tayong magkasakitan.

So parang naiintindihan ko na nga. Hindi mo kasalanan. Hindi ko kasalanan. Walang may kasalanan. Lesson ‘to. Experience. I’m just glad I’m going through this with you.

Okay lang naman siguro kung medyo weird ako for a while ‘no? Ayoko pa ring iwanan yung pagkakaibigan natin. It’s the best gift you’ve ever given me. And if only for that, I’d be honored to go back to being your old normal friend.

Sana pagbalik ko, andyan ka pa din. Tapos isang araw, pag-uusapan natin ‘to, tatawa na lang tayo. Darating din ‘yung isang araw.

So dyan ka lang. Babalik din ako.

At gusto kong isipin: Naiintindihan mo din.

January 26, 2009

Broken Heart…

Filed under: A Little Something, Love/Heart Talks - kAreN maE @ 10:00 pm

“I can’t say ‘screw him’ to the guy that I have come the closest to being fully in love with. I still would do anything for him and it sucks because I know he wouldn’t do the same for me. That hurts more than anything, but I just can’t stop loving him, believe me I’ve tried.”

This is for the broken hearted. I know how you feel. Empty, betrayed, and no happiness whatsoever. You don’t want to laugh, because you know it’s not going to help, but you don’t want to cry, because it will just make you feel worse. You feel like your heart is falling apart, but not only that, but you know soon your life is going to feel like it’s falling apart too. You don’t think it will ever end, and no matter what this person has done to you, it feels impossible to stop loving them. And everyone wonders why if they have hurt you so much, then why do you still love them. That’s the confusing part, you don’t know why, you just do, and the people who hurt you the most, and normally the ones you love the most. And then, after a few weeks, you finally feel a sense of relief, like you’re getting happy again, but you know inside that you’re just going into denial. And after a few more weeks, you’re back to where you were an empty soul and teary eyes. You thought you got over them, but really, you just stopped showing it. And you can’t help but to show it again. It leaves deep scars on your heart that are there forever. And no one understands how you feel, and how deep you are hurt, no matter who they are, because it hasn’t happened to them And even if it has, every broken heart is different. They don’t know the true pain you feel and carry each and everyday now, so you learn that basically you are alone with all this. And the feeling starts to overwhelm you, and suddenly you just break down, right there, because you know you’ve had enough, the tears just instantly start flowing, and you’re to the point where you don’t care who see’s. Because you’ve spent so many nights lying awake in bed, and so many days being haunted by the scars and fear of rejection. And in the midst of all these tears, you know that its not helping any, and it’s not going to bring them back, if you ever even had them in the first place. After about a million tears have been cried, you finally pull yourself back together and keep going. Your throat starts to clench and your eyes burn with the tears you are trying to hold back. Everyone says, "It will be okay…” But you know it won’t. And that’s the truth, it won’t. And you look back on all of the hurt you had from this, and you realize that people are horrible. You’re still hurt, but you’ve learned to hide it so that everyone thinks you are okay. So now every time you see this person, you know you still love them, and you feel a slight tingle in your heart yearning for them to love you, screaming out, but for some reason they don’t hear it. And then you sit back and wonder how one person could have caused all of this…

November 15, 2008

Breaking - Up: Damn the DISTRUST!

Filed under: A Little Something, Love/Heart Talks - kAreN maE @ 5:49 pm

Do thoughts of your ex fill your mind every second of everyday? Does the mere mention of your ex’s name tie your stomach into a huge, painful knot? Do you get that sinking, elevator feeling in your heart every time you think about him? Do you think you’ll never feel better again? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then good! At least I know that I am not alone…heheh..emoticon

I had a break – up experience with a certain boy who was once my boyfriend (obvious bah?). for any other reason as well, we broke up maybe because were not really for each other or should I say misunderstanding! . I said, I don’t like to think of it as misunderstanding or whaterver! I like to think of it as Investigative Cleaning!..nyahahah..emoticon

I’m willing to bet that most of the readers have experienced a breakup at least once in their lives…right? In a breakup, stages that a person can feel – anger, sadness, resentment, hatred, insecurity, just to name a few, hmmm… or whatever feeling I may have during the breakup. I’ve come to the conclusion that the absolute worst part of going through a breakup is that one of the common reactions is insane distrust—distrust of yourself, the person you were with, and of the relationship’s meaning. This is something I’ve been struggling with throughout my breakup from my bf, which has officially gone on for one week exactly. Unfortunately, I may be aware that I’m filled with doubt, but I haven’t quite figured out how to stop doing it.

November 7, 2008

Only great minds can read this…

Filed under: A Little Something, Just for fun - kAreN maE @ 11:26 pm

If you can read the following paragraph, you got great mind.
This is weird, but interesting!
fi yuo cna raed tihs, yuo hvae a sgtrane mnid too…

 

Cna yuo raed tihs? Olny 55 plepoe out of 100 can.

i cdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was

rdanieg. The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig to

a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it dseno’t mtaetr in waht

oerdr the ltteres in a wrod are, the olny iproamtnt tihng is taht


the frsit and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a

taotl mses and you can sitll raed it whotuit a pboerlm. Tihs is

bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, b ut

the wrod as a wlohe. Azanmig huh ? yaeh and I awlyas tghuhot

slpeling was ipmorantt! if you can raed tihs forwrad it emoticon

October 17, 2008

Im sOooO bOred..!!!

Filed under: A Little Something - kAreN maE @ 5:59 pm

kapoy jud dri sa balay ai..promiz!emoticon boring kaau..! Lami kau laag-laag bha.eheheh!..emoticon Miz na nako akong uyab.. emoticon hahahah!...miz na pud nako akong mga fRiendships…MY GOD!...stranded ko hiR..emoticonWaLa jud q kasabot sa akong gibati bha..pag naay klase gusto wala’y klase..pag wala pud klase gusto pud na’y kLase..hahai..unsa man jud?! emoticon ..wHATEVER!.. emoticon basta, miss u all guyz! mwah!LabyU aLL! emoticon

July 26, 2008

Top 5 difference ng taong GUSTO mo sa taong MAHAL mo

Filed under: A Little Something, Love/Heart Talks - kAreN maE @ 12:49 am

5. Hindi ka makatitig sa taong GUSTO mo, pero hindi maalis ang mga mata mo sa taong MAHAL mo.
*** yan ang unang unang mapapansin mo, dahil sa totoo lang halos hindi mo kayang tignan ng matagal ang taong gusto mo pero tuwang-tuwa ka naman tuwing tititigan mo ang taong mahal mo.

4. Kapag umiiyak ang taong GUSTO mo, aaluhin mo siya pero kapag MAHAL mo ang umiiyak, hindi mo napapansin na maging ikaw sa sarili mo ay umiiyak din.
*** kadalasan kasi kapag nakikita nating down ang taong gusto natin we will do anything just to brighten their feelings pero pansinin ninyo na kapag yung’ taong napakahalaga at mahal natin ang nasasaktan ramdam na ramdam din natin.

3. Nahihiya ka sa harap ng GUSTO mo pero kapag nasa harap ka ng taong MAHAL mo natural lang lahat ng kilos mo.
***pansin na pansin din to’ kasi kapag gusto natin ang isang tao we give our best foot forward para magpa-impress pero kapag nasa tabi na tayo ng taong mahal natin kahit na magmukha tayong tanga parang ayos na ayos lang lalo na’t para sa kanila ang ginagawa natin [am I right?]

2. Kapag ikaw naman ang tinitignan at tinititigan ng taong GUSTO mo magba-blush ka pero kapag yung taong mahal mo ang makikita mong nakatitig ‘sayo mapapangiti ka sa sobrang kakiligan.
***aminin ninyo, pansin na pansin naman diba, na kapag ‘yung crush o ‘yung gusto natin ang nakatingin may blush pero kapag ‘yung taong mahal natin hindi lang blush, nandyan pa yung mapapangiti ka na lang ng hindi mo napapansin.

1. kapag nagyaya yung taong GUSTO mo papayag kang sumama pero kapag MAHAL mo ikaw mismo ang gagawa ng paraan para makasama siya.
***ang pinaka matinding pangitain kung mahal mo ang isang tao ay kung ikaw na mismo ang gumagawa at nagiisip ng paraan para maextend ang pagsasama niyo.

June 14, 2008

Most Quotable Lines of All Times

Filed under: A Little Something - kAreN maE @ 4:31 pm

1. “Oo, kaibigan mo lang ako!...and I’m so stupid to make the biggest mistake in my life of falling in love with my bestfriend!” – Jolina Magdangal (nkalimutan ko title eh..heheh!)

2. “You’re nothing but a second rate…trying hard copycat!” – Cherie Gil (BITUING WALANG NINGNING)

3. “Para kang karinderyang bukas sa lahat ng gustong kumain…” – Vilma Santos (PALIMOS NG PAG-IBIG)

4. “Mahal kita…kahit ang sakit sakit na…” – Bea Alonzo (ONE MORE CHANCE)

5. “Kaya nga ayoko ng relationships eh…kasi in the end, nagkakasakitan lang kayo…” – Anne Curtis (WHEN LOVE BEGINS)

6. “I never…said…that I love you…” – Sam Milby (MAGING SINO KA MAN)

7. “Yes…I am a slut…but I am the best slut in town!” – Anne Curtis (MAGING SINO KA MAN)

8. “I’m just a girl standing in front of a boy asking him to love her…” – Julia Roberts (NOTTING HILL)

9. “As long as it’s you saying it…it doesn’t matter how slow you say it…i’ll still listen. If you can’t talk on the phone then i’ll come to see you. If you wanna walk…no matter how slow it will be…i’ll walk with you…” (from the movie “1 LITRE OF TEARS” ...nkalimutan ko sino may sabi ng line eh..)

10. “…with great power comes great responsibility…” Tobey Maguire (SPIDERMAN)

11. “Bakit, kung sinabi ko bang mahal kita nuon…sasabihin mo bang I love you?...” – John Lloyd Cruz (CLOSE TO YOU)

12. “Mahal mo ba ako dahil kailangan mo ako o kailangan mo ako dahil mahal mo ako?” – Claudine Barretto (MILAN)

13. “Walang himala!...ang himala ay nasa puso ng tao!” – Nora Aunor (HIMALA)

14. “A person who lies to himself is lonely." – Ashiya Mizuki (HANA KIMI)

15. “If I tell you I love you…can I keep you forever? – Casper (from the movie CASPER)

16. “Trust is the hardest thing to build but its scary how easily it gets destroyed" – (ULTRAMAN MEBIUS)

17. “…ipikit mo ang iyong mga mata para di mo makitang nasasaktan ako…” – Maja Salvador (ONE MORE CHANCE)

18. “She loved me at my worst…you had me at my best…but you chose to break my heart" – John Lloyd Cruz (ONE MORE CHANCE)

19. “Walang tayo Carl…walang tayo!" – Claudine Barretto (KAILANGAN KITA)

20. “Hindi ko alam kung ano ang mas mahirap, ang matutunang mahalin ang nagmamahal sayo, o umasa kang mahalin ng taong mahal mo…" – Claudine Barretto (GOT TO BELIEVE IN MAGIC)

21. “You never say sorry for loving someone, you never say sorry for loving me" – Claudine Barretto (GOT TO BELIEVE IN MAGIC)

22. “Hindi mo alam kung anong nawala sa akin para punan ang lahat ng pagkukulang ko sa’yo…” – Aga Muhlach (DUBAI)

23. “I see him in my everyday life, that’s why I’ve been hurt everyday" – Goong (GAME OF LOVE)

24. “Akala mo lang wala…pero meron..meron..meron..!” – Carlo Aquino (BATA, BATA, PAANO KA GINAWA)

25. “Si Val!...si Val!...puro na lang si Val!..si Val na walang malay..!” – Vilma Santos (SAAN NAGTATAGPO ANG PAG-IBIG)

26. “Nagpanggap akong mayaman kasi yun ang utos nila sakin..eh ikaw? sinong nag utos na magpanggap kang tao? – Judy Ann Santos (I’M SORRY MY LOVE)

27. “I was never your partner, I’m just your wife…” – Sharon Cuneta (MADRASTA)

28. "…ilang beses ba akong maniniwala?...ilang beses ba akong magmamahal?...ilang beses ba akong masasaktan?..." – Bea Alonzo (DREAMBOY)

29. “…i love you as much as the entire universe exploding, as much as the waters in the sea drying, with my spirit burst, as much as it spread outward…i love you very much…” – Rain (FULL HOUSE)

30. “Walang batas ang nagsasabi na bawal magmahal ng dalawa…" – Vilma Santos (MANO PO 3)

31. “Mahal kita hindi dahil yun ang tama…mahal kita dahil yun ang totoo…” – Judy Ann Santos (KAHIT ISANG SAGLIT)

32. “I wish I could be reborn as a tree, once I put my roots down, I’ll never move…so I don’t have to say goodbye to my loved ones." – Barbie Xue (AUTUMN TALE)

33. “Even though I can’t tell if it’s love or not, there’s a person that makes me satisfied just by seeing him smile…” – Ashiya Mizuki (HANA KIMI)

34. “…don’t fall in love with me…” – Mandy Moore (A WALK TO REMEMBER)

35. “I will be with you…we will be together because we are under one sky…" – Domyouji (HANA YORI DANGO)

36. “Farewell always arrive before the realization of our feelings the only kiss in my lifetime, the one and only love I ever had…I want the person I love, to fall in love, with the person he loves…” – Tada Kimi wo Aishiteru (limot ko sa title..heheh)

37. "...i don’t deserve to be treated like this…i care about my job!...i care about you…!" – Sharon Cuneta (CAREGIVER)

June 5, 2008

Filipino Essay: What is an educated Filipino?

Filed under: A Little Something - kAreN maE @ 3:43 am

By: Francisco Benitez

What is an educated Filipino and what qualities should distinguish him today?

The conception of education and of what an educated man is varies in response to fundamental changes in the details and aims of society. In our country and during this transition stage in our national life, what are the qualities which an educated man should possess?

Great changes have taken place in the nature of our social life during the last forty years. The contact with Americans and their civilization has modified many of our own social customs, traditions, and practices, some for the worse and many for the better. The means of communication have improved and therefore better understanding exists among the different sections of our country. Religious freedom has developed religious tolerance in our people. The growth of public schools and the establishment of democratic institutions have developed our national consciousness both in strength and in solidarity.

With this growth in national consciousness and national spirit among our people, we witness the corresponding rise of a new conception of education – the training of the individual for the duties and privileges of citizenship, not only for his own happiness and efficiency but also for national service and welfare. In the old days, education was a matter of private concern; now it is a public function, and the state not only has the duty but it has the right as well to educate every member of the community – the old as well as the young, women as well as men – not only for the good of the individual but also for the self-preservation and protection of the State itself. Our modern public school system has been established as a safeguard against the shortcomings and dangers of a democratic government and democratic institutions.

In the light of social changes, we come again to the question: What qualities should distinguish the educated Filipino of today? I venture to suggest that the educated Filipino should first be distinguished by the power to do. The Oriental excels in reflective thinking; he is a philosopher. The Occidental is the doer; he manages things, men and affairs. The Filipino of today needs more of his power to translate reflection into action. I believe that we are coming more and more to the conviction that no Filipino has the right to be considered educated unless he is prepared and ready to take an active and useful part in the work, life, and progress of our country as well as in the progress of the world.

The power to do embraces the ability to produce enough to support oneself and to contribute to the economic development of the Philippines. Undoubtedly, a man may be, and often is, an efficient producer of economic goods and at the same time he may not be educated. But should we consider a man who is utterly unable to support himself and is an economic burden to the society in which he lives as educated merely because he possesses the superficial graces of culture? I hope that no one will understand me as saying that, the only sign of economic efficiency is the ability to produce material goods, for useful social participation may take the form of any of any of the valuable services rendered to society trough such institutions as the home, the school, the church and the government. The mother, for example, who prepares wholesome meals, takes good care of her children and trains them in morals and right conduct at home, renders efficient service to the country as well as the statesman or the captain of industry.

I would not make the power to do the final and only test of the educated Filipino; but I believe that in our present situation, it is fundamental and basic.

The educated Filipino, in the third place, must have ingrained in his speech and conduct those elements that are everywhere recognized as accompaniments of culture and morality; so that, possessing the capacity for self – entertainment and study, he may not be at the mercy of the pleasure of the senses only or a burden to himself when alone.

There are, then, at least three characteristics which I believe to be the evidence of the educated Filipino – the power to do, to support himself and contribute to the wealth of our people; acquaintance with the world’s progress, especially with that of his race, people, and the community, together with love of our best ideals and traditions; and refined manners and moral conduct as well as the power of growth.

May 13, 2008

Microsoft Office Accounting Express 2008

Filed under: A Little Something, My Discoveries - kAreN maE @ 4:19 pm

Microsoft Accounting Express is the new released accounting software from Microsoft Corporation. When we say accounting software, it is an application software that records and processes accounting transactions within functional modules such as payroll, billing, inventory and stock and etc.

Microsoft Accounting Express offers a wide range of accounting solutions for any business. It is an easy-to-use solution that improves your productivity by automating invoices, checks and expense tracking with basic accounting tools.

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May 6, 2008

Art of Letting Go

Filed under: A Little Something, Love/Heart Talks - kAreN maE @ 2:30 pm

It’s over. He’s gone. Why do we have to part while the love is still there? Why do we have to suffer? Why do we have to cry when someone bids goodbye? Why do beginnings have an end? Why do we have to meet only to loose in the end?

In a relationship, one of the hardest things to do is saying goodbye and letting go. It is as hard as breaking a crystal because you’ll never know when you will be able to pick up the pieces again. More often than not, they who go, feel not the pain of parting. It is they who stay behind that suffer, because they are left with memories of a love that was meant to be, a love that was.

At the beginning and at the end of a relationship, we are embarrassed to find ourselves alone. Unfair as it may seem, but that’s the way love goes. That’s the drama, the bittersweet and the risk of falling in love. After all, nothing is constant but change. Everything will eventually come to its end, without us knowing when, without us knowing how, without us knowing why. And we must forgive not because we want to but because we have to.

In letting go, sorrows come not in a single spy but in battalion. It seems that everywhere you go, everything you do, every song you hear, every turn of your head, every move of your body, every beat of your heart, every blink of your eye and every breath you take always remind you of him. It’s like a stab of a knife, a torture in the night; funny how the whole world becomes depopulated when only one person is missing. Just imagine there are billions of people on earth. And yet it seems you feel empty without the other. I don’t know if it’s worth calling an art, but letting go entails special skills sparkle with a considerable skills and time. Time heals all wound but it would take a little push on our part. Acceptance plays a part. Not all wishes come true. Not all love stories end with “AND THEY LIVE HAPPILY EVER AFTER.”

Sometimes we have to part because of circumstances beyond our control. We have to suffer if it would mean happiness for others. We have to cry to temporarily let go of pains. Every beginning has its end, like every dawn has its dusk. It’s something we can’t control, something we have to live up.

May 4, 2008

20 Things Girls Want Guys to Know

Filed under: A Little Something, Love/Heart Talks - kAreN maE @ 5:18 pm

1.  We love when you cuddle with us.
2. A kiss on the chick is a definite yes.
3. We want you to put your arm around us at the movies.
4. We don’t care if you are the strongest guy in the world.
5. Size doesn’t matter so don’t tell us.
6. We don’t always look our best so get over it.
7. We shouldn’t have to plan everything.
8. Were always ready to talk so call us.
9. Were not perfect so deal with it.
10. We love surprises.
11. The little things you do mean the most.
12. Were not always girly gins.
13. We can like boy stuff too.
14. Cursing and fighting don’t impress us.
15.Don’t be mean to us to get our attention.
16. Don’t tell us who is not because we don’t care.
17. We can tell when you’re not listening so listen up.
18. When we say we are cold that’s our invitation to come closer.
19. Hugs mean more sometimes.
20. We need your advice sometimes so don’t be afraid to give it to us.

April 3, 2008

A reflection…

Filed under: A Little Something - kAreN maE @ 5:42 pm

Do you sometimes like giving up loving? Do you feel giving up your goodness? Please don’t…

Read on…

There was this man who saw a scorpion floundering around in the water. He decided to save it by stretching out his finger, but the scorpion stung him. The man still tried to get the scorpion out of the water, but the scorpion stung him again and again.

A man nearby told him to stop saving the scorpion that keep stinging him, but the man who attempts to save the scorpion said: "It is the nature of scorpion to sting. It is my nature to love. Why should I give up my nature to love just it is the nature of scorpion to sting?"

Sometimes in our lives, we easily give up loving certain things, or should I say we easily give up loving someone without knowing their natures, their own selves! We can’t blame them, cause what they shows is the real them! We can just easily say, "I hate him because he’s like this and like that…", "I preferred man to be like this… and "I preferred my woman to be like that…" it’s so disgusting! Isn’t it? When you love someone, get to know him/her first, accept him/her no matter what she/he is in the past(if you really love him/her), accept his/her mistakes, after all, we know that "nobody’s perfect" right? And one thing, to love someone doesn’t mean you have to be perfect, but rather learning to love someone despite of his/her imperfections.

Heheh…wala lang gud…reflect-reflect lang! emoticon

March 16, 2008

The Undelivered Arrival Statement

Filed under: A Little Something - kAreN maE @ 4:23 am

This was Ninoy Aquino’s Arrival Statement. Moments before the shot heard all over the country. Ninoy is escorted by mlilitary officers to his death on August 21, 1983. It is the most famous undelivered speech in Philippine history. I just thought it is a good time to share this to everyone.

By: Benigno "Ninoy" Aquino, Jr.

I have returned on my free will to join the ranks of those struggling to restore our rights and freedoms through nonviolence.

I seek no confrontation. I only pray and will strive for genuine national reconciliation founded on justice.

I am prepared for the worst, and have decided against the advice of my mother, my spiritual adviser, many of my tested friends, and a few of my most valued political mentors.

A death sentence awaits me. Two more subversion charge, both calling for death penalties, have been filed since I left three years ago and are now pending with the courts.

I could have opted to seek political asylum in America, but I feel it is my duty, as it is the duty of every Filipino, to suffer with his people especially in time of crisis.

I never sought nor I have been given any assurances or promise of leniency by the regime. I return voluntarily armed only with a clear conscience and fortified in the faith that in the end justice will emerge triumphant.

According to Gandhi, the willing sacrifice of the innocent is the most powerful answer to insolent tyranny that has yet been conceived by God and man.

Three years ago when I left for an emergency heart bypass  operation, I hoped and prayed that the rights and freedoms of our people would soon be restored, that living conditions would improve and that bloodletting would stop.

Rather thatn move forward, we have moved backward. The killings have increased, the economy has taken a turn for the worse, and the human rights situation has deteriorated.

During the martial law period, the Supreme Court heard petitions for Habeas Corpus. It is most ironic, after martial law has allegedly been lifted, that the Supreme Court last April ruled it can no longer entertain petitions for Habeas Corpus for persons detained unerd a Presidential Commitment Orde, which covers all so-called national securitycases and which under present circumstances can cover almost anything.

The country is far advanced in her times of trouble. Economic, social, and political problems bedevil the Filipino. These problems ma be surmounted if we are united. But we can be united only if all the rights and freedoms enjoyed before September 21, 1972 are fully restored. 

The Filipino asks for nothing more, but will surely accept nothing less, than all the rights and freedoms guaranteed by the 1935 Constitution – the most sacred legacies from the founding Fathers.

Yes the Filipino is patient, but there is a limit to his patience. Must we wait until the patience snaps?

The nationwide rebellion is escalating and threatens to explode into a bloody revolution. There is a growing cadre of young Filipinos who have finally come to realize that freedom is never granted; it is taken. Must we relieve the agonies and the bloodletting of the past that brought forth our Republic, or can we sit down as brothers and sisters and discuss our differences with reason and goodwill?

I have often wondered how may disputes could have been settled easily had the disputants only dared to define their terms.

So as to leave no room for misunderstanding, I shall define my terms:

1. Six years ago, I was sentenced to die before a firing squad by a Military Tribunal whose jurisdiction I steadfastly refuse to recognize. It is now time for the regime to decide. Order my execution or set me free. I was sentenced to die allegedly being the leading communist leader. I am not a communist, never was, and never will be.

2. National reconciliation and unity can be achieved but only with justice, including justice for our Muslim and Ifugao brothers. There can be no deal with a Dictator. No compromise with Dictotorship.

3. In a revolution there can be no victors, only victims. We do not have to destroy in order to bulid.

4. Subversion stems from economic, social, and political causes and will not be solved by purely military solutions; it can curbed not with ever increasing repression but with a more equitable distribution of wealth, more democracy and more freedom.

5. For the economy to get going once again, the working must be given his jst and rightful share of this labor, and to the owners and managers must be restored the hope where there is so much uncertainty if not despair.

On one of the long corridors of Harvard University are carved in granite the words of Archibald Macleish:

"How shall freedom be defended? By arms when it is attacked by arms; by truth when it is attacked by lies; by the democratic faith when it is attacked by authoritarian dogma. Always, in the final act, by determinations and faith."

I return from exile and to an uncertain future with only determination and faith to offer-faith in our people and faith in God.

Source: English Exercises for the Filipino Youth: Communication Arts English by: Sophia Erica Bantayan

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